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Saved by a stitch in time
By Laurel J. Sweet
Friday, August 27, 2004
S ALISBURY - Having survived a miscarriage induced by her kickboxer beau planting his foot in her kidney, as well as shooting up junk in Chinatown toilets, incarceration is as idyllic a life as Lisa Smith, 37, of South Boston has ever known.
     ``I don't feel like I've been arrested,'' Smith said. ``I feel like I've been rescued.''
     Jillian, a 24-year-old Salem native who no longer acknowledges her surname, dreamed of becoming a realtor, but her parents needed a mule to carry on the family drug trade, so her mother got her hooked while her father used her body for a punching bag.
     ``Whenever I did something good they would beat me down and whenever I did something bad they'd give me hugs. That's how I got my love,'' she said.
     ``I'd rather be handcuffed to the state than that lifestyle.''
     If pain were a pastel and hatred a hue, the afghans and baby hats inmates of the Essex County Women In Transition Center have been crocheting for unwed teenage mothers would read like diaries, for these simple squares are spun from extraordinarily complex lives.
     ``We're not all bad,'' said Smith, a mother of four, ``we just made bad choices.''
     The community service project to benefit Dare Family Services in Newburyport is teaching the women to love again and - perhaps more importantly - to embrace love in return.
     ``It's amazing and so therapeutic for them,'' said Lynn Hansen, re-integration coordinator.
     No two afghans are alike and each is dedicated to the memory of a woman killed by abuse.
     Veronica Rodriguez, 21, who's doing time at the prerelease facility for stealing to support her drug habit, is all too familiar with that subject. Her cousin, Betzaida Montalvo, was one of three Worcester prostitutes murdered by a suspected serial killer.
     ``It feels good to be acknowledged,'' said Rodriguez, a sweet young woman who, when she came to W.I.T. from MCI-Framingham, spat swears at every turn and was called ``Ghetto'' behind her back.
     ``Ugly, with a filthy rotten mouth,'' is how Smith brutally describes Rodriguez's former self. ``She has done such a remarkable turnaround. They say you never make friends in prison, but I have.''
     W.I.T. welcomes donations of yarn and hooks. Those interested in helping out may call the program at 978-750-1900, ext. 3726.
     
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