Merge pull request #244 from cognitedata/release/0.3.7

## Bump
- [ ] Major
- [ ] Minor
- [x] Patch
- [ ] Skip

## Changelog

### Improved
- Align lifecycle heuristics across handlers and test_and_deploy scripts for stable semver ordering, payload-aware version reuse, and robust live queue assertions.
- Update lifecycle skill guidance to codify handler/script parity requirements and queue-state validation behavior.
